The Power of “NO”

(c) 2020 by Ann Babiarz & Associates LLC

It is so important to say “No” these days – because until we learn to say “No” we continue to be stressed and overwhelmed with too much to do in not enough time. And isn’t it usually our priorities (eg. our ideas, health, quality time with self or family) that suffer? Interestingly, most children go through a phase where their favorite word is “No”. That’s because No is a power word. It gives a definite sense of self. And this means that saying “No” is also an ideal opportunity to rediscover your sense of who you are! So, whether you learn to say “No” more often, or just learn to say “Yes” on your terms, release yourself from the burden of pleasing others and give yourself more time and freedom to do what matters to you.  Let me get you started with ten tips on how to best say “no”.

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What is THE Key Equation to a Successful Business, Career & Life?

Balancing time and moneyYou’ve seen the titles on books in your local bookstore or on library shelves. Perhaps you couldn’t sleep one night, and the half-hour infomercial proclaimed this loudly. Or, you even received a solicitous e-mail, flyer or similar communication from an information-seller.

What is the title, proclamation, or solicitation of which I speak? It is various individuals trying to tell you that they have a “secret” to a business that will make you more successful than your wildest dreams.

There are stories of the accidental entrepreneur, or the person who stumbled into the opportunity where she can work five hours a week and spend most of her time running to the bank to make deposits. There are also stories of people who cash the big lottery tickets. My view is that neither is the norm.

But, I will tell you the secret to entrepreneurial success. I know, I should be selling this in a book that costs a lot, and is really centered around this one idea. This is the one idea that while it won’t guarantee your success, it will give you the best chance. Are you ready?

The secret to success in starting a new business is . . . Hard Work.

There are not too many real lazy man’s way to riches out there. If you ask virtually every small business owner what she had to do to make a go of her concern, the responses will be varied, but with a common theme. Keep plugging along. Just do what you need to do. Put in the time. Make it your number one focus. Stay honed in on your goals and you can reach them.

You have the man who emigrated from his homeland to the United States, started a submarine sandwich shop that’s open seven days a week from 6 AM to 10 PM, and he’s there virtually every hour of every day.

You have the contractor who specializes in kitchens and baths, and who walked through neighborhoods on foot rubber banding flyers to thousands of doors.

You have the real estate agent who attends every networking meeting she can find to make more contacts in the community in which she wants to establish herself.

You have the musician sending out hundreds of e-mails, recording demos, and pounding the pavement looking for gigs. All of these newbie entrepreneurs are ramping up their businesses using old-fashioned sweat. It is the secret to most entrepreneurial success. You have to work hard. Sorry self-help books and informercials. There are rarely shortcuts.

If hard work is the secret to ramping up your business, then work-life balance is the secret to sustaining it.

I hear the howls of protest. I simply don’t understand your business, and the fact that you must work 80 or 90 hours a week to make a go of it. And while it’s true that this mutable law has exceptions — during start up, or periods of time that are critical to accomplishing tasks or projects for your venture or specific clients — I will acknowledge your protest and respectfully disagree with it.

At this point, I could entertain you with a plethora of quotes from various sages. You know you need to stop and smell the roses. You know you need to enjoy the ride. You know the words of wisdom gleaned from Jesus Christ to Albert Einstein.

But here’s the real truth. Even if you are a hard-nosed businesswoman, and are willing to affix your proboscis to a grindstone day in and day out, refusing to cater to the whims of those less committed than you, consider this.

Social scientists inform us that those who refuse to balance their work self with a personal life have an incredibly high risk of burnout. Burnout is problematic for most small entrepreneurs, and an unmitigated disaster for the professional. Want to have the burned-out surgeon perform your procedure? I thought not!

Bottom line, if you don’t pay attention to the life side of that elusive balance, you may do a disservice to your clients, quit prematurely, or worse yet, find yourself imperiled by physical, mental, or emotional distress, leading to serious problems. You understand that hard work is necessary to launch that business and make it a success. You need to further understand that to sustain that success long-term you need to pay attention to work-life balance. Failure to do so could cause both you, and your business, to flatline.

Ways to Be Ruthlessly Efficient, Stop Juggling, and Add To Your Bottom Line

Cartoon Character Octopus Isolated on White Background. Vector.

Cartoon Character Octopus Isolated on White Background. Vector.

Despite what courses and books proclaim, I believe that “time management” is a misnomer. No one manages time. Time marches on quite nicely regardless of how you choose to interact with it. Nevertheless, what you must do as a small entrepreneur is to effectively use your time.

Too many individuals eagerly pursue a path of entrepreneurship, only to find themselves working 25 hours a day. Not only does the “life” side of the work-life balance equation suffer under these conditions, but the business or work element does as well. There is always some formula of diminishing returns, differing slightly between each individual person, but nonetheless present, which postulates that after a certain amount of time spent grinding away, a person becomes less and less effective at a task.

Mixing together research studies, personal experience, and anecdotal evidence from clients, colleagues and friends, the sweet spot for a workweek seems to clock in at around 50 hours. Moreover, however the seven-day week was derived — whether from Judeo-Christian roots, Babylonian religious beliefs, standardized under the Roman Empire, etc. — it also seems commonsensical that the average human labors best with at least one day off out of the seven. Those who wind up working more than seven days in a row (e.g. retail employees during the end of the year holiday season) will show signs of the stress of doing so.

Obviously, we can adjust this based upon age and exigency. An 18-year-old will likely be able to toil longer than a 78-year-old. And during times of emergency or critical need, most of us can muster the will and ability to get the job done.

But, the solopreneur is by definition one person. To climb the ladder into business viability, and thereafter up to greater levels of success, the founder, chief cook and bottle washer of the entrepreneurial venture needs to be ruthlessly efficient with his or her time. Focusing upon this principle is one of the key mutable laws of our mastermind group. Let’s look at seven examples. As we have content elsewhere that goes into greater detail, we will examine each only briefly.

1. One drag upon efficiency is building a business that relies solely upon trading time for dollars. The savvy entrepreneur looks to ways in which time can be leveraged, and earnings are not solely based upon the number of hours spent engaged in a task.

2. Another surprising limitation on efficiency is multitasking. Social scientists have conducted numerous studies, most of which show that multitasking is a terribly inefficient way to do about anything. We all know the grim consequences that result from those who try to drive a car and text at the same time.

The term multitasking itself is a misnomer. Rather than performing a duo of tasks simultaneously, what actually occurs is that our brains shift rapidly back and forth between the two. Essentially, we are breaking our concentration and shifting our attention repeatedly. Not all multitasking is bad; like all of our mutable laws, there are exceptions. Feel free to experiment whether multitasking can be efficient for you in certain routine tasks. But be wary if it becomes your standard operating procedure.

3. Another powerful tool to use in your quest for efficiency is the magic of “no”. Whether in your business or in your daily life, it’s important to learn to say no. Until we do so, we will continue to be stressed and overwhelmed with too much to do and not enough time. When this happens, usually the loudest voices get serviced first, which may not always be those matters of priority. Interestingly, most children go through a phase where their favorite word is no. That’s because no is a power word. It gives you a definite sense of self.

4. Another, perhaps less familiar way to use time efficiently, is to apply Parkinson’s Law. Cyril Parkinson was an English economist who first published his “law” as a humorous essay in the mid-1950s. In its simplest form, it is expressed as:

work expands to fill the time available for its completion.

Essentially, in the world of the small entrepreneur, we often allot way too much time to complete a task. We will then expand the task to fill the time we have provided for it. We all tend to work much more efficiently when we are slightly under the gun, under a deadline to complete something.

5. Another scenario that often arises is the belief that something must be perfect or absolutely complete before it can be implemented. While striving for perfection is a necessary goal in certain situations — we all hope our surgeon or lawyer follows this maxim — in many other cases you can launch something and fix the bugs later. How often do we purchase a software program, or install an app on our smart device, only to see patches and fixes being routed our way over the coming weeks and months?

6. Managing information is absolutely key to the efficient entrepreneur. One can easily drown in a sea of e-mails and endless web-surfing. Moreover, information illiteracy is welcomed in the world of the small entrepreneur. You probably don’t need to subscribe to 100 free newsletters to glean the correct amount of information to run your business. Figure those you can eliminate, and practice a little bit of ignorance. It will save time, and usually not harm you in the slightest with respect to your business endeavor. Of course, special note to the professionals, such as lawyers, accountants and doctors, as these folks tend to require more sources of research than the average small entrepreneur might.

7. Finally, don’t be afraid to create the workday that suits you. With the exception of retail, most small entrepreneurs can work whatever timeframe that feels best. Many who become entrepreneurs after working at a corporate gig for a number of years, fall into the pattern of the 9-to-5 schedule. What if you worked better from midnight to 5 AM? What if you preferred working in the morning, taking a break through the early afternoon hours, and then returning into the early evening to finish your tasks? Some of us are morning people, some of us night owls. Don’t hesitate to find what works best for you.

The foregoing examples merely scratch the surface. Our second mutable law encourages the entrepreneur to always look at systems and ways to do something more efficiently.

Passion in action

Top thought leaders in the world of entrepreneurship will tell you that if your sole purpose in creating a business is to make money, your risk of failure increases dramatically. You will be less likely to be engaged in creating and building an empire about which you care little. And, without hard work, a new business will have a tough road to travel. [Read more…]

Turn I’m bored into I’m board . . .

Let’s face it.  The kids are bored.  Scrolling through 115 television channels, each of which has nothing on, was never your idea of “family time”. Why not spend some quality time with your children that doesn’t involve some form of video screen? [Read more…]

If you critique it, can you boutique it?

 

So often these days, entrepreneurs are focused on growth. Don’t make the better mouse trap, make the bigger one. We all have dreams of being Donald Trump. Plus, it’s always been drilled into our heads that business is business, and you need to take it all the taking is good. Some of this may be a result of having weathered the most severe economic downturn since the 1930s. Many of us may be operating from a position of fear. [Read more…]

Tip of the day for the entrepreneur

So often we entrepreneurs spend 80% of our time servicing the clients that earn us 20% of our revenue. Set aside some time to take a hard look at your “chart of accounts.” See which clIents you have that take much more of your time then the dollars in justified. Then, ask yourself the following questions: (1) why do I spend so much time on these clients; (2) is the time spent justified for reasons other than revenue; and (3) what would my business look like if I stopped servicing one or more of the time-sucking clients. You may be surprised at what a little pruning might do for your business, your work-life balance, and surprisingly, your bottom line.

Are you burned out? (part 2 of 2)

Last time,(January 20th) we looked at the first three signs of burnout; here are four more: [Read more…]

Are you burned out? (part 1 of 2)

You fall violently ill one day and there are two physicians who are available to treat you. To your right is Dr. Black, who has no experience whatsoever in the disease that ails you. To your left is Dr. White, who is expert on the diagnosis and treatment of your disease, but really doesn’t care about patients, medicine or healing the sick at all. You are really stuck like Buridan’s ass, aren’t you? [Read more…]

The Seven Deadly Sins of entrepreneurship — Number Five

The fifth of the Seven Deadly Sins is worship without sacrifice. For purposes of adapting this maxim into the world of the entrepreneur, I have substituted the word spirituality for worship. In today’s Western society, while some will claim to have a set of religious beliefs, almost all of us feel we have a spiritual side to our being. [Read more…]