The Road to Perdition is Paved with What?

(c) 2009 and revised (c) 2020 by Ann Babiarz & Associates LLC

We’re more than halfway through our summer and of our year 2020. Which, if any, of your New Years’ resolutions are still pending? What changes do you still want to make? How can you make this year better than last? Yes, I am aware that this is a most unusual year, due to circumstances beyond our control.  Nonetheless, with respect to much of how you view your journey through life, there is still a lot that you can shape, create and achieve, moment by precious moment. The choice is yours.

In his song, Changes in Latitudes, Changes in Attitudes, Jimmy Buffet sings “Yesterday is over my shoulder, so I can’t look back for too long, there’s too much to see waiting in front of me and I know that I just can’t go wrong.”  To me, these words are powerful because they reflect a forward-looking and positive perspective.  According to Brian Tracy in his Personal Success program, successful people think about what they want, most of the time.  What are you thinking about most of the time?

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Five by Five

Here’s an exercise that will help spur creativity, may give you confidence to move forward on projects, and has the added benefit of pestering some of your close friends . . .

Ask five of your closest friends to e-mail or text you a list of what they consider to be your five most positive personality traits. As tempting as it might be for some of your impish friends to poke fun at this exercise (“dude, you can down 3 beers an hour and still stand up”), ask them to treat this seriously, and to concentrate on positive, uplifting things only. Because most people will rapidly forget a buried e-mail or text, request that you receive these lists within 24 hours. [Read more…]

Support, resistance, and personal achievement

People who trade securities often look at technical indicators to try to predict the performance of a particular stock. This involves examining charts of the past actions of the issue, looking at the high and low prices at which it traded. Those who study charts can find prices of support and resistance. Support is a price level from which analysts believe the stock will not fall lower. Resistance is the price point that the security may rise to, but will have difficulty exceeding. Sometimes, certain stocks tend to trade within the range created by these two levels, cycling between them with patterns that can be predicted. These are commonly referred to as channeling, wave, oscillating or cycling stocks. [Read more…]

Why Your Brain Needs Exercise

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Train Your Brain

“The brain needs regular exercise just like the body does. When a child is young and everything is new and novel, the brain is at its peak of absorbing new inputs and modeling the child’s world. Not only is the child absorbing the most information, the brain is in its healthiest and functionally best state.

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What is THE Key Equation to a Successful Business, Career & Life?

Balancing time and moneyYou’ve seen the titles on books in your local bookstore or on library shelves. Perhaps you couldn’t sleep one night, and the half-hour infomercial proclaimed this loudly. Or, you even received a solicitous e-mail, flyer or similar communication from an information-seller.

What is the title, proclamation, or solicitation of which I speak? It is various individuals trying to tell you that they have a “secret” to a business that will make you more successful than your wildest dreams.

There are stories of the accidental entrepreneur, or the person who stumbled into the opportunity where she can work five hours a week and spend most of her time running to the bank to make deposits. There are also stories of people who cash the big lottery tickets. My view is that neither is the norm.

But, I will tell you the secret to entrepreneurial success. I know, I should be selling this in a book that costs a lot, and is really centered around this one idea. This is the one idea that while it won’t guarantee your success, it will give you the best chance. Are you ready?

The secret to success in starting a new business is . . . Hard Work.

There are not too many real lazy man’s way to riches out there. If you ask virtually every small business owner what she had to do to make a go of her concern, the responses will be varied, but with a common theme. Keep plugging along. Just do what you need to do. Put in the time. Make it your number one focus. Stay honed in on your goals and you can reach them.

You have the man who emigrated from his homeland to the United States, started a submarine sandwich shop that’s open seven days a week from 6 AM to 10 PM, and he’s there virtually every hour of every day.

You have the contractor who specializes in kitchens and baths, and who walked through neighborhoods on foot rubber banding flyers to thousands of doors.

You have the real estate agent who attends every networking meeting she can find to make more contacts in the community in which she wants to establish herself.

You have the musician sending out hundreds of e-mails, recording demos, and pounding the pavement looking for gigs. All of these newbie entrepreneurs are ramping up their businesses using old-fashioned sweat. It is the secret to most entrepreneurial success. You have to work hard. Sorry self-help books and informercials. There are rarely shortcuts.

If hard work is the secret to ramping up your business, then work-life balance is the secret to sustaining it.

I hear the howls of protest. I simply don’t understand your business, and the fact that you must work 80 or 90 hours a week to make a go of it. And while it’s true that this mutable law has exceptions — during start up, or periods of time that are critical to accomplishing tasks or projects for your venture or specific clients — I will acknowledge your protest and respectfully disagree with it.

At this point, I could entertain you with a plethora of quotes from various sages. You know you need to stop and smell the roses. You know you need to enjoy the ride. You know the words of wisdom gleaned from Jesus Christ to Albert Einstein.

But here’s the real truth. Even if you are a hard-nosed businesswoman, and are willing to affix your proboscis to a grindstone day in and day out, refusing to cater to the whims of those less committed than you, consider this.

Social scientists inform us that those who refuse to balance their work self with a personal life have an incredibly high risk of burnout. Burnout is problematic for most small entrepreneurs, and an unmitigated disaster for the professional. Want to have the burned-out surgeon perform your procedure? I thought not!

Bottom line, if you don’t pay attention to the life side of that elusive balance, you may do a disservice to your clients, quit prematurely, or worse yet, find yourself imperiled by physical, mental, or emotional distress, leading to serious problems. You understand that hard work is necessary to launch that business and make it a success. You need to further understand that to sustain that success long-term you need to pay attention to work-life balance. Failure to do so could cause both you, and your business, to flatline.

Ways to Be Ruthlessly Efficient, Stop Juggling, and Add To Your Bottom Line

Cartoon Character Octopus Isolated on White Background. Vector.

Cartoon Character Octopus Isolated on White Background. Vector.

Despite what courses and books proclaim, I believe that “time management” is a misnomer. No one manages time. Time marches on quite nicely regardless of how you choose to interact with it. Nevertheless, what you must do as a small entrepreneur is to effectively use your time.

Too many individuals eagerly pursue a path of entrepreneurship, only to find themselves working 25 hours a day. Not only does the “life” side of the work-life balance equation suffer under these conditions, but the business or work element does as well. There is always some formula of diminishing returns, differing slightly between each individual person, but nonetheless present, which postulates that after a certain amount of time spent grinding away, a person becomes less and less effective at a task.

Mixing together research studies, personal experience, and anecdotal evidence from clients, colleagues and friends, the sweet spot for a workweek seems to clock in at around 50 hours. Moreover, however the seven-day week was derived — whether from Judeo-Christian roots, Babylonian religious beliefs, standardized under the Roman Empire, etc. — it also seems commonsensical that the average human labors best with at least one day off out of the seven. Those who wind up working more than seven days in a row (e.g. retail employees during the end of the year holiday season) will show signs of the stress of doing so.

Obviously, we can adjust this based upon age and exigency. An 18-year-old will likely be able to toil longer than a 78-year-old. And during times of emergency or critical need, most of us can muster the will and ability to get the job done.

But, the solopreneur is by definition one person. To climb the ladder into business viability, and thereafter up to greater levels of success, the founder, chief cook and bottle washer of the entrepreneurial venture needs to be ruthlessly efficient with his or her time. Focusing upon this principle is one of the key mutable laws of our mastermind group. Let’s look at seven examples. As we have content elsewhere that goes into greater detail, we will examine each only briefly.

1. One drag upon efficiency is building a business that relies solely upon trading time for dollars. The savvy entrepreneur looks to ways in which time can be leveraged, and earnings are not solely based upon the number of hours spent engaged in a task.

2. Another surprising limitation on efficiency is multitasking. Social scientists have conducted numerous studies, most of which show that multitasking is a terribly inefficient way to do about anything. We all know the grim consequences that result from those who try to drive a car and text at the same time.

The term multitasking itself is a misnomer. Rather than performing a duo of tasks simultaneously, what actually occurs is that our brains shift rapidly back and forth between the two. Essentially, we are breaking our concentration and shifting our attention repeatedly. Not all multitasking is bad; like all of our mutable laws, there are exceptions. Feel free to experiment whether multitasking can be efficient for you in certain routine tasks. But be wary if it becomes your standard operating procedure.

3. Another powerful tool to use in your quest for efficiency is the magic of “no”. Whether in your business or in your daily life, it’s important to learn to say no. Until we do so, we will continue to be stressed and overwhelmed with too much to do and not enough time. When this happens, usually the loudest voices get serviced first, which may not always be those matters of priority. Interestingly, most children go through a phase where their favorite word is no. That’s because no is a power word. It gives you a definite sense of self.

4. Another, perhaps less familiar way to use time efficiently, is to apply Parkinson’s Law. Cyril Parkinson was an English economist who first published his “law” as a humorous essay in the mid-1950s. In its simplest form, it is expressed as:

work expands to fill the time available for its completion.

Essentially, in the world of the small entrepreneur, we often allot way too much time to complete a task. We will then expand the task to fill the time we have provided for it. We all tend to work much more efficiently when we are slightly under the gun, under a deadline to complete something.

5. Another scenario that often arises is the belief that something must be perfect or absolutely complete before it can be implemented. While striving for perfection is a necessary goal in certain situations — we all hope our surgeon or lawyer follows this maxim — in many other cases you can launch something and fix the bugs later. How often do we purchase a software program, or install an app on our smart device, only to see patches and fixes being routed our way over the coming weeks and months?

6. Managing information is absolutely key to the efficient entrepreneur. One can easily drown in a sea of e-mails and endless web-surfing. Moreover, information illiteracy is welcomed in the world of the small entrepreneur. You probably don’t need to subscribe to 100 free newsletters to glean the correct amount of information to run your business. Figure those you can eliminate, and practice a little bit of ignorance. It will save time, and usually not harm you in the slightest with respect to your business endeavor. Of course, special note to the professionals, such as lawyers, accountants and doctors, as these folks tend to require more sources of research than the average small entrepreneur might.

7. Finally, don’t be afraid to create the workday that suits you. With the exception of retail, most small entrepreneurs can work whatever timeframe that feels best. Many who become entrepreneurs after working at a corporate gig for a number of years, fall into the pattern of the 9-to-5 schedule. What if you worked better from midnight to 5 AM? What if you preferred working in the morning, taking a break through the early afternoon hours, and then returning into the early evening to finish your tasks? Some of us are morning people, some of us night owls. Don’t hesitate to find what works best for you.

The foregoing examples merely scratch the surface. Our second mutable law encourages the entrepreneur to always look at systems and ways to do something more efficiently.

What are the 10 mutable laws for entrepreneurial success? – Part 1

Every organization has at least one. Perhaps it could be as simple as a mission statement or a credo, or as complex as a policy manual or sacred text. Every grouping of humans since we learned to write, and possibly before, sets down thoughts for acceptable and unacceptable behaviors, aspirations or simply dreams. [Read more…]

What is consciousness?

I read a newly published book about Neanderthals. It’s quite interesting that the most common misconception about these early hominids is that they are a predecessor species to us. In fact, anthropologists now believe that Neanderthals and Homo sapiens existed side-by-side, cousins on the early family tree. [Read more…]

Do you exercise your brain?

“The brain needs regular exercise just like the body does. When a child is young and everything is new and novel, the brain is at its peak of absorbing new inputs and modeling the child’s world. Not only is the child absorbing the most information, the brain is in its healthiest and functionally best state. [Read more…]

Name it and Tame it!―Gremlins

Your gremlin is your inner critic. It is the most powerful limiting belief. It is that annoying little voice that tries to convince you to play small. Perhaps it is your mother’s voice or the voice of your 9th grade Algebra teacher. Regardless, the bottom-line message from your gremlin is that you are not good enough. Your gremlin might say things like play it safe, don’t try, and that it is safer to stay where you are. It can stop you in your tracks when you are on the edge of success. [Read more…]