Getting it Done, 101

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“There are only two days in the year that nothing can be done. One is called yesterday and the other is called tomorrow, so today is the right day to love, believe, do, and mostly live.” Dalai Lama

As I read this quote, my focus shifts among the minimum 1000 things on my to-do list, all of which are tapping on my shoulder.

Does this scenario sound vaguely familiar? If it does, you could be dealing with a state of overwhelm. This state affects most of us at some point in our lives.

Many people recount that they are feeling overwhelmed by things like juggling the demands of business/career, family and self-care. Me time, REALLY? Here are some other common reasons why we feel overwhelmed:

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Can Do . . . But Won’t

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Are you a “yes” person?  If so,  I bet you take pride in pleasing those around you.  Great job!  Kudos to you for the daily sacrifices you make in order to make sure that everyone is happy.   Everyone ELSE that is.  

So why do you do it?  Why put everyone else first and yourself last?   For some, saying yes is a habit; for others, it is almost an addiction that makes them feel that they need to be needed and as though they are contributing to someone else’s life.  What gives?  

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Send lawyers, guns and money*

[Guest post by Michael A. Babiarz, J.D.**]

When might it make sense to play offense, choosing to take action against who or what caused your chaos? Should you be a plaintiff in a lawsuit? Does it make sense for you to recoup financial losses that are inflicted upon you by another’s actions?

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Why Hiring is a Bitch and How You can Avoid It

Two options with blank road signs

 

Congratulations! Your business has done well. Youʼve grown your firm to the point where youʼre working way too many hours, but getting rewarded in that the revenue stream is steady and impressive. You feel you are ready to obtain help. This is a big decision for an entrepreneur.

So now you reach that question. Who do you hire?

Many entrepreneurs start with hiring family. Spouses, children, and similar folks can be good choices. In theory, they should be as committed to your success as you are. Of course, there are downsides to hiring family, as you well know by reading this blog and other content on this website.

Another common choice of the newbie entrepreneur for the first employee is a friend. Like family, friends can be incredibly helpful to you. A good friend could become a good employee. But if kids and other family can be minefields or missiles, friends, who are sometimes referred to as your family of choice, can have similar propensities.

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What is THE Key Equation to a Successful Business, Career & Life?

Balancing time and moneyYou’ve seen the titles on books in your local bookstore or on library shelves. Perhaps you couldn’t sleep one night, and the half-hour infomercial proclaimed this loudly. Or, you even received a solicitous e-mail, flyer or similar communication from an information-seller.

What is the title, proclamation, or solicitation of which I speak? It is various individuals trying to tell you that they have a “secret” to a business that will make you more successful than your wildest dreams.

There are stories of the accidental entrepreneur, or the person who stumbled into the opportunity where she can work five hours a week and spend most of her time running to the bank to make deposits. There are also stories of people who cash the big lottery tickets. My view is that neither is the norm.

But, I will tell you the secret to entrepreneurial success. I know, I should be selling this in a book that costs a lot, and is really centered around this one idea. This is the one idea that while it won’t guarantee your success, it will give you the best chance. Are you ready?

The secret to success in starting a new business is . . . Hard Work.

There are not too many real lazy man’s way to riches out there. If you ask virtually every small business owner what she had to do to make a go of her concern, the responses will be varied, but with a common theme. Keep plugging along. Just do what you need to do. Put in the time. Make it your number one focus. Stay honed in on your goals and you can reach them.

You have the man who emigrated from his homeland to the United States, started a submarine sandwich shop that’s open seven days a week from 6 AM to 10 PM, and he’s there virtually every hour of every day.

You have the contractor who specializes in kitchens and baths, and who walked through neighborhoods on foot rubber banding flyers to thousands of doors.

You have the real estate agent who attends every networking meeting she can find to make more contacts in the community in which she wants to establish herself.

You have the musician sending out hundreds of e-mails, recording demos, and pounding the pavement looking for gigs. All of these newbie entrepreneurs are ramping up their businesses using old-fashioned sweat. It is the secret to most entrepreneurial success. You have to work hard. Sorry self-help books and informercials. There are rarely shortcuts.

If hard work is the secret to ramping up your business, then work-life balance is the secret to sustaining it.

I hear the howls of protest. I simply don’t understand your business, and the fact that you must work 80 or 90 hours a week to make a go of it. And while it’s true that this mutable law has exceptions — during start up, or periods of time that are critical to accomplishing tasks or projects for your venture or specific clients — I will acknowledge your protest and respectfully disagree with it.

At this point, I could entertain you with a plethora of quotes from various sages. You know you need to stop and smell the roses. You know you need to enjoy the ride. You know the words of wisdom gleaned from Jesus Christ to Albert Einstein.

But here’s the real truth. Even if you are a hard-nosed businesswoman, and are willing to affix your proboscis to a grindstone day in and day out, refusing to cater to the whims of those less committed than you, consider this.

Social scientists inform us that those who refuse to balance their work self with a personal life have an incredibly high risk of burnout. Burnout is problematic for most small entrepreneurs, and an unmitigated disaster for the professional. Want to have the burned-out surgeon perform your procedure? I thought not!

Bottom line, if you don’t pay attention to the life side of that elusive balance, you may do a disservice to your clients, quit prematurely, or worse yet, find yourself imperiled by physical, mental, or emotional distress, leading to serious problems. You understand that hard work is necessary to launch that business and make it a success. You need to further understand that to sustain that success long-term you need to pay attention to work-life balance. Failure to do so could cause both you, and your business, to flatline.

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What’s holding you back?

It’s that time again. New Year’s is traditionally when we make resolutions. And what is a resolution but a goal? We start each year setting forth goals that we hope to accomplish in the coming days, weeks and months. Sadly, most of us fail to keep many of our resolutions. In fact, statistically, most Americans will miss the target on their New Year’s propositions. [Read more…]

Make some small decisions today

Let’s face it, big choices or big decisions are hard ones. That’s why they’re called “big”! [Read more…]

The best reason to join the entrepreneurial revolution

There are two types of Fortune 500 jobs: those positions which were eliminated in the last several years, and those positions which will be eliminated in the next five. At which job are/were you working? [Read more…]

Do something!

You walk into your office, and staring back at you is a massive pile of files on your desk. Or, if you are digitally inclined, you have the equivalent number of files in your “inbox” on your laptop. You know that the experts tell you you should prioritize, calculating which matters require attention first, and then proceed in an orderly manner. [Read more…]